1) it's always good to have a skimmer, it's not always needed but its a good thing to have on a nano that cant have enough rock fitted in to lighten the bio load a bit more
2) even if its fuji you still need ~1kg of rock per gallon no matter how porous it is
3)the only way to have too much is if your cramming it into the tank, thats blatently toooo much, but if you have sense then you wouldn't do that would you?
4) my info isn't misleading at all, it's how i've set-up all my tanks and it's whats always worked for me
and finally
5) in what way would my advice make a tank go bad? none of my tanks have gone bad following this advice
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